Part of life is making decisions. Some are easy and some are difficult, but we have to make them to move on. For some people, making decisions comes naturally. Others might consider taking a decision making course because they struggle so much with the skill. No matter how you react to decision making, there are a few key steps you can follow to make a sound decision in any situation.
The scariest part of making a big decision can be the feeling that you’re unsure of how it will affect your life. To alleviate some of this stress, try researching as much as you can. If the decision is to take a new job in a new town, then read about the company and the town to determine if it’s a good fit for your personality. Find the differences between the new place and where you live now to see if you it’s an attractive change or not.
You can also brainstorm all of the potential outcomes. This can sometimes help you to rule out the extreme scenarios as possibilities that might give you anxiety. Work through what might happen if you took the job and then what might happen if you didn’t. Which scenario is more appealing?
Make a Decision
Sometimes before you make a decision, the most helpful thing you can do is make a pros and cons list. This helps you visualize your thoughts and can simplify decision making. If this doesn’t seal the deal for you, then be sure to ask others what they think would be the best option. Ultimately, you have to make your own decision, but gathering feedback from family and friends can still be helpful.
Now you can make a well-thought decision and feel confident going into the next change in your life.